I think of times when I have needed help and those that were there for me and never left my side are the ones that really have counted...the ones that mattered. They were with me because they wanted to be, they cared, I mattered to them. Just as they now matter enormously to me.
People don't want to be around them. Their walls are impenetrable. And you quickly find it isn't possible to break them down. The load is too heavy to carry.